Thursday, June 24, 2010
The little bits of love. @ Thursday, June 24, 2010
Be noted that blog had shifted to -
Friday, May 7, 2010
Pour your love, the world is waiting. @ Friday, May 07, 2010
In us, there is always a love shape, red thing that beats every second, it's our heart.
In a relationship, many times we think that we dont fit one another, we'll never belong to each other, or it is just a mistake.
For the other side, it's just "Its okay, because whats more important is that we both want to fit"
In an ideal relationship, love and contentment happily reigns.
In any relationship, there is a problem. It's not what the problem is ; it's how best to handle a situation with your partner.
No matter how hard we try , it isnt possible to always envelope in the hazy feeling of love , nor is it likely that a couple will be the perfect fit from the beginning right to the very end .
Two people may be compatible at the start of their relationship , but as time progresses , they will grow , change and undertake new experiences , but not necessarily at the same pace or in the same form .
We've changed and we've grown ; though only time will tell if for the better or the worse - and we're frustrated that our partner dont seem to understand or accept that.
Too many times, we're too busy feeling indignant, justified and trying to make a point that we cant seem to see our partner's point of view. Every statement might be true to us, but it might leave a scar on heart to someone else.
Everyone wants to be heard and understood, so one person have to do the hearing and understanding.
Relationship are about love, patience and understanding ; though sometimes it may feel like a war.
It is easier to complain than it is to work hard. It s easier to give up than to try harder. It is certainly easier to protect our ego than it is to admit we may be wrong.
And I'm wishing that I could take your hand
And set you on some untouched land
Just so you are never sad again
And you world you have known will somehow end
We the kings - Rain Falls Down.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
How much of love could you pour out? @ Saturday, May 01, 2010
Stop stalking me alright :D
I'm not in church on a sunday morning, :D :D Well, because I've already went yesterday night , :p
My pastor must be the coolest pastor on earth, who used an IPAD with his sermon notes in it to preach, he's awesome awesome awesome! :D
Many of us been complaining about the hard times, struggle in life but have you ever realize many struggles are created by us, ourselves?
To me, being a christian doesnt mean being really holy. Being a christian doesnt mean I should be judgemental, judging someone by their looks, by their attitude. We're all shaped before them, thats all.
Like everyone else, we always judge someone by the way they dress, how they look. Just because someone is not as good looking as you are, doesnt mean tht person doesnt have a heart. Just because someone had extra piercing, doesnt mean that person is bad.
Well, we're all born with a pure heart and soul. There must be a reason why all these is formed.
We're christian in a reality world. From where I am, I mix with almost everyone, people who smoke, shisha, everything. But, I'm doing it at all. If you only avoid yourself from them, who are you going to reach out to? Christians again?
I'm doing my best to meet everyone one of my friend's needs. And that makes me realize they're somehow like us, they had a heart, they had a mind, and they look up for friendship - relationship. What is different is just our mindset, looks, how we look up on consequences in life.
Well, we always said, I want to be loved and to love. But you're waiting to be loved before you even start loving. Why don't you just love before being loved? Love the way you want to be loved. Love everyone, not some-one.
Fyi, I once tried to suicide when I was THIRTEEN.
Thir-TEEN-ager. life. sucks. that. time.
Look, sometimes when we read other people's blog, sometimes they had some point which points out for us. But the problem is, we go "Ohh , nope, that's not me."
Well face the fact, ITISYOU! One word, change.
We always said, I will love unconditionally.
Liar. When we start pouring out love to someone, we tend to start creating a list in our mind. Ohh, because I have loved you, I want you to love me in RETURN, I want you this that that this. Liar.
Who first said I WILL love unconditionally? :) second that.
Do you know, every morning when I wakeup, I would talk to my self in front of the mirror when I'm brushing my teeth. Two things I would remind myself about, :)
ONE - Today is a happy day, yesterday is a history.
TWO - Im gonna be who I am not who someone wants me to be.
Well, if you only want to be who someone wants you to be, you will never be who you really are, you would only be. someone.
There is something I am always reminded about, what differentshape a rich man and a poor man. Hardwork.
For my shock, a rich men never stop working, never quit in searching for a solution. He take every opportunity there is in front of him.
A poor man does this - Tomorrow la, tomorrow la, which would never come. A poor man gives up easily, a poor man pull of from every opportunity.
Do you know, once you started the tomorrow-lah habit, you will never stop. You will never know when today is your last day on earth.
Look, loves. If you think taking a short cut to be success is the way. Let me remind you this, you might get rich, but you will be poor in the shortest and worst way. Why? Because you had no effort in putting up education, the plan B.
We could always achieve beyond our limit, if we never stop trying.
It's like running on track. Today you're just here, if you keep trying the next day and the next day, you'll realize how far you could go. Slowly. :)
Happy coming week, peps!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
meow loves roff. @ Wednesday, April 28, 2010
I'm glad to say Joanne is still alive after 3 hours of uploading pictures. :O Someone please kill me.
And Yes, I had a sampat photoshoot the other day and my sampat poh walked from usj6 (omg!!) To my house. I was like looking outside my window all the time and when I seen her, I shouted her name real loud and then went down stairs to pick her up :D
Before we start, we laughed so hard till we sweat, lmao! :D
It wa quite tiring 2 hours photoshoot cause I had to change so much. -_-"
Meow, banyak! :D
Relationship is like ice, water, or fire.
It could be as solid as ice, not moving. Or slow flowing like water maybe burning as hot as fire.
If you were to define your own relationship, what would it be? :)
Today, at school. I got selected for sex ceramah. Okay, someone just kill me.
Man, out of SOOOOOO many girls in our school, why me? :(
At first I didnt knew why was I called, the prefect just told me to go down and only selected ones have to go. Someore discipline teacher called me, Tan Chin Chin to be exact. It's almost like going to hell.
And when we went in the hall, all of us were like please can we run away? LOL.
I'm so lazy to blog, and I'm gonna study! :) So, off now. Love you readers :D