Sunday, January 24, 2010
The Law Of Clarity. @ Sunday, January 24, 2010
Today, Pastor K preached about "THE LAW OF CLARITY"
Me, personally thinks it's a very very good sermon.
Let's start with, what is law of clarity?
LAW OF CLARITY is knowing where you are going and how you are going to get there.
It was said, if you don't spend time to plan, you'll spend more time solving the problem itself.
So through my opinion, it is very important to plan our life ahead. Take our future as an example. What is your goals in life? Some people would want to be a pilot. To be a pilot, the first thing you have to do is study well. and that means you have to have a great plan ahead.
To study, aims for A's and where are you going to take the course.But not only that, being in a game plan, we have to keep our plan on track. Keep going. No one wants to create a plan and give up, half way. It is also important to put action in plan.
Successful life spell HARDWORK and commitment.
With that we need to PLAN AHEAD ;
Predetermine a course of action.
Lay out your goals.
Adjust your priorities.
Notify key personnel.
Allow time for acceptance.
Head into Action.
Expect problems.
Always point to the successes.
Daily review your plan.
SO, if you are going to rise to the top and be successful, you need to be clear about ;
1. WHERE are you going.
"What you focus on will grow. What you nurse will flourish, But what you starve will die."
2. HOW are you going to get there.
"A clear plan bridges the gap between what you desire and what you achieve."
Do you have a plan to get to where you want to go?
"If there is something that you want but you never had t before then you must be prepared to do something that you have never done before!" (:
You need to first have understanding before an undertaking.
You cannot do the same thing, the same way but expect a different result. Take your studies for an example, If you want to do well. and years before this you had fails of red marks. This year you want to make a change. That also bring up a different study schedule and more hardwork. Following the way you study before this wouldnt make a difference.
3. WHO is going with you.
"A life achievement is proof that I have invested into the right people"
The outcome of our lives is determined by people we allow into our lives.
4. WHO you want to be while on your way. "Integrity is like oxygen - the highier you go, the lesser it is."
At times we choose to take risks, some risks are worth to take. But some arent. In a way, we should really know our limit in taking risk either. There will be a time in your life, you don't know what to do at all. That's when eureka moments came by.
In conclusion, let me end with these principles :
i. Realize that improvement is guaranteed only to those who are willing to change.
ii. Success is the willingness to bear pain. The question is : How much pain are you willing to bear?
iii. High standards are merely ideals untill a man is willing to hold himself to them.
Do you know money come and go, but dignity, pride and reputation falls out of hand, never comes back? Be wise in your decision. We live by making decisions.
In the other hand, I want to talk about something that is happening too much in front of my eyes. FRIENDSHIP.
In life, we live surrounded by friends. We grow by friend and we were influence by friends. However, there is nice friends and un-nice friends.
Who we mix with actually depends on which friends we chose to mix with. Yes? Lately, I've realize there are friendship problems everywhere, people on facebook is arguing.
Firstly, I am very glad my friendship among my friends are still going strong. :D
But have you ever wonder why this problems happens? What is so big that worth tearing you and your friends apart. From what I know, these peoples are best friends for a very long time.
I had friendship problems many times. And never did I know. All my problems happen when a childish act came up. Sometimes, I got so angry at someone that I acted childish, not to mention the ego in me.
but ever since then, I know making up so much problems, posting up stuff is just making me mirror myself as someone lack of attention.
Do you know, when you hate someone's attitude, standing behind them, pointing at them and bad mouth them wouldnt change them? If you ever had the guts to talk behind someone's back why don't you tell them nicely about their attitude so that they could change for the better?
We human being wouldnt know about our bad sides unless someone came to us and tell us. On top of that, just talking wont change that someone but only to make someone angry. Remember, no one is perfect, but we could shape our own character.
Problem occur between two parties must be solved between two parties alone. Mature people solve without any harsh. But with maturity. I strongly agree with that, If you and your friend had problem between the both of you. Why don't sit and talk?
What is the point shouting and scolding? Does that satisfy you or it just make you feel stronger? To my point, winning over these doesnt give you any benefits. Have you thought, so what if you win? That person will be scared of you?
We live to make decisions. The problem is, if you ever never like that person, then why even bother to backstab them? Not just that, being nice to someone in front but back stab then right behind doesnt help at all.
Be mature, accept people's opinion and change. It's that easy. How many friend you had that never talk behind your back. NONE. Even I did it before. But as soon as I realize, I stopped. I now freely tell them right in front of their face, nicely. Because I love my friend and even my enemies. I want them to change, I don't want to avoid them, but to change them.
You will only change, if you're willing to change.
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